Back in the huddle
Padgett was taken off the ventilator on March 27, and he slowly, almost miraculously, regained consciousness.
“Waking up to this new world, I’ve been really touched by people’s desire to help others,” he says. “In the midst of people losing jobs and being fearful that they can't afford their rent, the generosity has been incredible. The support for healthcare workers — those are the things that give me hope.”
Padgett has also been buoyed by the people from his past who’ve sent well wishes after hearing about his ordeal.
“Old friends, parents of friends, people I knew growing up have reached out,” he says. “Folks from my freshman year dorm. A complete stranger donated to Northwestern in my name. One of my middle school teachers wrote me an incredibly kind letter.”
One of those well-wishers is Padgett’s former teammate and lifelong friend, Robert Johnson ’95, who had been in touch with Connie daily while Padgett was in the hospital. “One of the toughest, smartest guys I know was on the brink of death. It was a really intense emotional roller coaster,” says Johnson, who has kept in touch with Padgett over the years through group texts and occasional visits. “This has really strengthened my resolve to make sure we see each other more often.”
Now recovering at home, Padgett is enjoying time with his family. He and Connie were married a month earlier than originally planned, on a boat with their two children. “It was the wedding exactly as we wanted it,” Padgett says.
These days, when friends, family and others reach out to Padgett, they tell him he’s incredibly strong. He would like to clarify:
“We’ve got to do a football analogy here. This is a team win. This is not a big individual effort. I'm here by the grace of a team who refused to give up.”
Reader Responses
I think that you were the guy who recognized the setting for the photo I had on the wall of my office of a little sailboat wing-on-wing near where you were raised up in Washington. I remember that incident well. Nice to read about your hairy "adventure," and especially your survival.
—James "Jim" Hall, professor emeritus of psychology Fallbrook, Calif., via Northwestern Magazine
Ryan, from what I remember, you always had a positive outlook in our college days. So while I am thankful you are still alive and with us, I'm not completely surprised you were one of the fortunate ones to beat COVID. All the best to you in your adventures ahead. Cheers!
—Jim Miller Wilmington, Del., via Northwestern Magazine
Ryan was a star student in my neurobiology and behavior class. I moved the final exam so he could have an NFL tryout, but he did not reciprocate with Rose Bowl tickets. So I waited in line at 6 a.m. in Evanston's cold December, got tickets for myself and my son, and followed Ryan and the team to Pasadena, where we saw a great game!
Ryan, glad you recovered.
—J.P. Rosenfeld, Department of Psychology, Northwestern Glencoe, Ill., via Northwestern Magazine
You are a fighter. In spite of extreme lack of contact with people you love, you survived. We need to be reminded how horrible how this disease really is. It's not just like the flu as we have heard from others.
Continue to be frightened of COVID so you will be careful and do what's right in our community.
—L. Laatsch Evanston, via Northwestern Magazine
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